Chapter 15

Victoria changed.
Not for me.
Important.
She went to therapy.
Reduced control over Sophie.
Stopped coaching her social behavior.
I heard all of this through Sophie and mutual friends.
No reward.
No renewed engagement.
Growth belongs to the person growing.
Years later Victoria told me:
“I thought being chosen meant someone else had to lose.”
That was it.
Marriage as ranking.
Children as ranking.
Love as ranking.
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She had lived her life trying never to be second again.
And nearly taught both children that family was a podium.